Ice Lakes Basin is a one-day hike, but you can pack in and stay. There's some cool peaks you access from there, like Golden Horn, but they're probably still snowed in. If not, go climb one and spend the whole time there, it's awesome. Lots of wildflowers, esp. columbine, though it may still be too early for them.
Ditto with Blue Lakes, if not snowed in, pack to the upper lake and then go on over the pass and climb Sneffels. That is also a good more relaxed three dayer, but the wildflowers aren't as good. But that's probably a moot point this time of year. Last I heard, Blue Lakes Pass was snowfree, but not sure about Sneffels. There's a point on the road into the lakes where everyone goes to shoot Sneffels in the fall, should make for some nice evening shots. This is right before you drop down into the valley where the trailhead is.
Another great place is the Cimarron out of Ridgway (Owl Creek Pass) - go camp there and climb whatever's accessible, even Courthouse is well worth it and an easy day climb. Any of the three forks will take you to good places.
But to try for all three places you mentioned is just gonna be frustrating. Pick one and do it. Also, check out Jack Brauer's site, I believe it's Mountain Photographer, as he spent a lot of time in that country and has some awesome backcountry shots of all these places. You could also call Ouray SAR and those guys can give you high altitude snow conditions. But since you're coming from the west side, I would do Blue Lakes or Owl Creek and save that long drive over Red Mtn. I might add that you really should call the road dept as they clear these roads and something I say is doable w/o a 4x4 may have deteriorated since I was there last. Stay away from the Yankee Boy side of Sneffels as it's nothing but rabid ATVers these days. And come prepared for mosquitoes - not as bad as the WInds, but still bad enough to be pesky.
